Scrawl it on your wall with spray paint, scribble it on your mirror with lipstick, tattoo it on the insides of your eyelids:
NO APPOINTMENT, NO DISAPPOINTMENT.
If you don't build your world on expectations, it doesn't collapse when things turn out different. This is not resignation but liberation. It's disillusionment in the best sense: cutting free from the illusions that have bound us. And since all our expectations are based on what has gone before, it's opening up to amazing possibilities, to that which we don't know how to expect.
- Dean Sluyter